Isn’t that a question! Well, before I can even attempt to
answer it, I want to set out what I mean by “Konmari” and “minimalist”.
Konmari is a Japanese decluttering method created by Mari
Kondo and outlined in her book The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up.
Possessions are subdivided into categories. For each category of items, you
round up all of those items from around your home and pile them in one massive
pile on the floor. Then you touch each item and ask if it “sparks joy”. If so,
keep it. If not, it goes. Once you’ve worked your way through each category,
you’ll have touch each object in your home and then you can organize what’s left.
I’ve been through the decluttering process once and am
currently working through it again and I can say from personal experience that
you will jettison a lot of stuff during this process! It truly is life
changing!!
What a minimalist is a bit harder to tie down. Typically,
you think of bare white walls and a mostly empty home. Konmari will not turn
you into this kind of minimalist unless almost nothing in your home sparks joy.
A more general definition would be a person who strives to live with a minimal amount
of things. (The exact amount of items will depend on the person and their
life.)
Using this definition, Konmari will not make you a
minimalist. Sparking joy and having a minimal amount of items aren’t mutually
exclusive but also don’t go hand in hand. For most of us, many, many items will
spark joy so we’ll end up with a decluttered home full of things we love after
Konmari rather than with a minimalist home.
My personal favorite definition of a minimalist, however, is
a person who is intentional about the things in their life. This resonates with
the Konmari ideas of keeping only what sparks joy (intention in choosing
objects) and by the end of the process, you will have gone through each item in
your home and they will now “intentionally” be there. Where Konmari fails this
definition of a minimalist is that there is no mention of changing the inflow
of items to the home only increasing the outflow. Also, most minimalists would
agree that sparking joy is not a good enough bench mark for whether an item
stays or goes.
In my own experience with Konmari, I found that while I had
hit my spark joy click point, I still felt like I had too much stuff! That’s
one of the reasons I decided to do Konmari again. Minimalism really changes
your relationship with things and goes beyond the bounds of Konmari
decluttering. It’s really on a whole different level.
So, the real answer is no, Konmari will not make you a
minimalist.
Having said that, I do recommend the Konmari process. It is
a great way to declutter your home-wannabe minimalist or not. If you are
looking to start a minimalism journey, it’s a perfect jumping off point. While
there are plenty of other decluttering methods out there, Konmari really shines
is in going by category rather than room so you really have to face how much of
each type of item you really do own, in the idea of spark joy as a requirement
(why do we keep so much stuff we don’t even like??) and in the organization of
categories from easiest to hardest so you don’t get bogged down with the hard
stuff at the beginning.
If you are looking for a well-organized, rapid process for
decluttering your home, Konmari is for you. If you are seeking a minimalist
life, you’ll have to continue to dig a bit deeper to find your “enough” below
all the stuff that “sparks joy”.
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